Humans may judge you ever so severely – even Christians. In fact, it is well known that church leaders can be the harshest critics of people who are battling with mental health issues. Some would quicker tell you that there is something wrong with your spiritual life rather than lend a sympathetic ear. The fact that they’ve just booked themselves in for a double heart bypass and their wife has a handbag full of painkillers is not an issue to them.
May God grant us the humility to see our hypocrisy!
And may you be encouraged that God is not a church leader. He is the mighty, all-knowing, all-loving Creator. What a relief he’s not like mankind!
I am so grateful that my pastor is supportive. I know there is stigma in some churches which is sadly unfortunate.
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I agree there are do many types and degrees of mental illness. Even professionals can have a hard time figuring things out, so how in the world can the average person give a “diagnosis” to pray more. Ugh!
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Yes I agree with you that it is very complex and so frustrating for those who are not given the support they need. I recently heard a story about a young guy who was suffering from anxiety to the point that he was having suicidal thoughts and when his worried mother rang his church leader, she was told that same example phrase that you mentioned above – to pray more and also that it was because he did not read his bible enough. Needless to say, they did not stay long in that congregation and wandered away with deep emotional wounds. Isn’t it sad? Thanks for taking the time to add your thoughts. xx
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How sad for that young man
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Yes it was. But, as you can imagine, his mother felt isolated and very let down 🙁. Xx
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My heart is broken for both of them
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Absolutely love this post. As someone who has an anxiety disorder as a Christian this speaks volumes to me. Don’t judge unless you want to be judged! (See Matthew 7:1). Everyone has difficulties and even if my”difficulty” is different from yours it’s a difficulty, nevertheless. Thanks for writing this. 😀
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Hi Carly. You are very welcome. I am happy that you were blessed by it and I always love to hear comments from readers, because we are a ‘team’ all trying to do our best to encourage one another. I’m sorry to hear that you are battling with anxiety but like you say, we all have different struggles. Many hugs. xx
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That’s right. Thank you so much!! 🤗😀
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Have a blessed weekend. xx
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Well spoken we do need to be compassionate and lend a listening ear to others
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Thank you Simba Frank.
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Thank you! Growing up, I had Christian adults in my life who said depression and mental illness were the result of selfishness. Even if one feels suicidal, that is still linked to self-pity and an over-focus on self. This viewpoint is harmful, and lacks the grace people struggling with mental illness need to get better. Thank God He does not break the bruised reed!
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Where is the compassion in that?
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None at all I’m sad to say.
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Hi Tressa. Oh my, why do we wound the wounded? This is terrible! What an awful thing to say to people who are already feeling vulnerable and guilty.
I remember a Christian girl on Facebook referring to somebody as an idiot because he jumped in front of her train and made her late home for tea. When other friends who saw the post tried to reason with her that the man was obviously deeply disturbed, she told them all to get off their high horse and continued to label the dead man as an idiot. I promptly unfriended her, because seeing comments like this coming from somebody who was supposed to be a follower of Jesus, really troubled me. You are right that it is a matter of needing more grace. Thanks for stopping by. It is much appreciated. xx
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That is indeed a disturbing and sad story. I think those who do the most harm to the name of Christ are those who claim Him as their Lord and yet they act even colder than those of the world.
There is one result of my depression that I a grateful for – I think God has used it to help me empathize more with the vulnerable and those struggling with mental health. Otherwise, I suspect I would have grown up to be a reflection of the adults I mentioned.
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Ah yes, I agree that we all have the potential to be like that. I love that verse in 2 Cor 1 that says we are able to comfort those with the same comfort we have received. Xx
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None! Thankfully, later in my life, God lead me to a church where the pastor and his wife – and several wonderful ladies – showed me what God’s love and compassion looks like! That is when my journey of healing really started.
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Oh I am so pleased for you Tressa! “God sets the lonely in families.” I love that verse ❤️
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It is sad that mental health is a stigma in churches. I hope that we as Christ followers understand that it should not be and may we support those who struggle with it.
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It is shunned as something for the weak and not for mature believers
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Yes, sadly.
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Thank you Manu. Yes I agree with you that we need to support our brothers and sisters who are struggling and anyone in fact. Who knows what is going to happen to any of us that may send us on a surprise downward spiral? I appreciate your comments.
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How true. The stigma surrounding mental illness is inexcusable. If I fell down a ski slope and broke my leg, most folks would feel sorry for me. But an anxiety attack doesn’t earn the same sympathy or understanding. Double Standards Stink!
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Let us consider one another before ourselves
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True.
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Hi David. That is a really good analogy! It made me laugh, but I can see the serious side of it also. And of course, having an anxiety attack is no laughing matter, especially when nobody around you is taking it seriously. May God continue to highlight our hypocrisy and may we be convicted enough about it to change. Thanks for taking time to add your thoughts.
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